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Wednesday, September 04, 2013
Sarah Silverman writes an obit
September 4, 2013
I wrote an obituary type thing:
Duck "Doug" Silverman came into my life about 14 years ago. He was picked up by the State running through South Central with no collar, tags or chip. Nobody claimed or adopted him so a no-kill shelter took him in. That’s where I found him -- at that shelter, in Van Nuys. Since then we have slept most every night together (and many lazy afternoons.) When we first met, the vet approximated his age at 5 ½ so I’d say he was about 19 as of yesterday, September 3, 2013.
He was a happy dog, though serene. And stoic. And he loved love.
Over the past few years he became blind, deaf, and arthritic. But with a great vet, good meds, and a first rate seeing-eye person named me, he truly seemed comfortable.
Recently, however, he stopped eating or drinking. He was skin and bones and so weak. I couldn’t figure out this hunger strike. Duck had never been political before. And then, over the weekend, I knew. It was time to let him go.
My boyfriend Kyle flew in late last night and took the day off from work to be with us. We laid in bed and massaged his tiny body, as we love to do – hearing his little “I’m in heaven” breaths.
The doctor came and Kyle, my sister, Laura and I laid on the bed. I held him close – in our usual spoon position and stroked him. I told him how loved he was, and thanked him for giving me such happiness and for his unwavering companionship and love. The doctor gave him a shot and he fell asleep, and then another that was basically an overdose of sleeping meds. I held him and kissed him and whispered to him well passed his passing. I picked him up and his body was limp – you don’t think about the head – it just falls. I held him so tight. And then finally, when his body lost its heat, and I could sense the doctor thinking about the imminent rush hour traffic, I handed him over.
14 years.
My longest relationship.
My only experience of maternal love.
My constant companion.
My best friend.
Duck.
Wednesday, August 21, 2013
Jerry Vondas Dies At 83
“Jerry chronicled the lives of so many people in the city, from all walks of life,” said Tribune-Review Editor Frank Craig. “His words provided comfort to many families in a time of grief and made him a well-known, well-loved figure in our community. He took great pride in his work, and he leaves a wonderful journalistic legacy.”
For more, click here.
Sunday, August 18, 2013
Sunday, August 04, 2013
"Little Black Trains" Giveaway
To enter, send an email with the subject line, Little Black Trains. Include your email address and favorite quote about death or obituaries in the body of the email. You do not have to be a member of SPOW to participate.
Deadline is Aug. 10.
Winners will be selected at random from all properly-formatted entries.
JUST PUBLISHED: "Little Black Trains"
Here's the summary for "Little Black Trains: A Tale of Life, Death and Commuting" (Shaftoe Publishing, June 2013):
A prominent BBC reporter is murdered in mysterious circumstances. Her colleague, Ben Murray, has to produce her obituary for that day’s TV news bulletins. Ben commutes each day by train with another obituary writer, Steve Graham from The National Herald newspaper. Listening to Ben’s stories convinces Steve to move from sport to obituaries at his paper. Despite their shared profession, they differ in the subjects they choose. While Ben deals with the famous, Steve prefers the Morris dancer who performed before The Queen with a ferret down his trousers or the singing bus conductor. Sometimes Steve includes more details in his obits than is good for him. One thing they agree on, though, is that obituaries are about life, not death.Among the odd characters they and their clique encounter on their daily commute is an old woman they call The Crone. One day, Steve spies her in the street and decides to follow her out of curiosity. As a result, he becomes accidentally embroiled in a web of murder and intrigue that sucks his friends in too and provides him with plenty of material for his weekly obituary column.
During his two decades at the BBC, Chaundy produced hundreds of obituaries for television and the Web, so he has the inside track on what it really means to be an obit writer. "Little Black Trains" is his debut novel, and one he describes as "by far and away his best."
Wednesday, July 31, 2013
Indian obits
Check out the first graf here for vocabulary: "is no more" stedda "died." Also "doyen," "breathed his last" and "last remains." Later: "broked," "condoled,"
The attention to the manner of death reminds me of 19th century obits, which frequently included dramatic accounts of the deceased's last moments. You almost never see that nowadays.
The Assam Tribune Pvt Ltd
Friday, July 26, 2013
Death and the obit writer's life
Wednesday, July 10, 2013
Can Eliot Spitzer improve his obit with a stellar comeback?
When his prostitution scandal first broke in 2008, there was a mention from a friend in the Times about how the scandal did not have to lead his obituary:
“I told him that I think, in the end, this incident will be a footnote to a great life lived greatly, and that he still has the ability to make enormous contributions,” said Alan M. Dershowitz, the Harvard law professor, who once counted Mr. Spitzer as a student and now counts him as a friend. “One of his goals has to be to make this a footnote in his obituary, and not make it the lead.”
A year later, a similar subject was touched upon in Spitzer's interview with Vanity Fair:
“Do you think the scandal will ever go away?,” I asked.
“No. My obituary’s written,” [Spitzer] replied with shocking finality. “And that is a very hard thing to live with.”
My question is, in light of his comeback and campaign for NYC comptroller: What would Spitzer have to do to not have his misdeeds lead his obit? Would he have to win this seat? Become mayor? President? Is there any hope for him?
I'd love to chat with any obit writers or editors you might be able to connect me with, whether via email or by phone at 212 508 0593.
Any help would be much appreciated!
Sunday, June 30, 2013
Ever Hopeful
"Writing obituaries is usually the first job a new reporter gets, a place to cut his or her teeth and learn the writing craft. Chomping at the bit to get to 'harder news,' reporters have long chafed at the seemingly boring job of compiling death notices. I am different in that I think writing an obituary is an honor and a respectful way to mark one person’s passage on this plane. I hope we all get a good one when our time comes." --Barbara Morgan
Sunday, June 23, 2013
Giving The Dead A Voice
Soundcite was produced by the Northwestern University Knight Lab as a way to make inline audio "easy and seamless" to produce. Simply record your audio file (in AIFF, WAVE, FLAC, OGG, MP2, MP3, AAC, AMR or WMA formats) and upload it to SoundCloud. Or, if you don't have your own audio, search the SoundCloud directory for the clip you need. Then, copy the file's URL into the Soundcite page, and it'll give you the embed code for the online version of your story.
For example, I wanted to add audio to my Christopher Hitchens obit. I searched SoundCloud and found that HachetteAudio had uploaded an excerpt from his memoir "Hitch 22." I grabbed the URL, pasted it into Soundcite and embedded the code into the obit. Very easy.
Tuesday, June 18, 2013
Pet obits
I know the writer is going to go from puppyhood to dysplasia. Worst case scenario, I'll probably read about the expectant eyes on the trip to the vet's office at the end. "Are we going to the park?" None of that sort of thing appears in this obit of a golden retriever, written by Daniel Ruth of the Tampa Bay Times, who also just won a Pulitzer for his political columns.
Saturday, June 15, 2013
Something We Never Want To Experience
We regret that due to technical difficulties, the report on Nelson Mandela's death was unintentionally published. @dw_english
— DW (English) (@dw_english) June 14, 2013
(h/t Romenesko)
Thursday, June 13, 2013
What is the future of obits?
What are your thoughts?
(Note: Additional resources available at http://bit.ly/futureofobits)
Tuesday, June 11, 2013
Missed The SPOW Conference In Toronto?
Monday, June 10, 2013
New Facebook Group for Grimsters!
On the new FB group page for grimsters, we have posted the names of the winners of the SPOW Awards which were presented during the SPOW Conference in Toronto this past weekend.
We'll post them on the Obituary Forum blog too, but we want to lure you to the FB group first.
More to come - both on this blog and our FB group page - on awards, the fabulous Toronto conference, future conferences, the future of SPOW and more!
Saturday, May 25, 2013
Riddle of the Labyrinth: a kind of extended obit
That beat does not normally make celebrities of its practitioners, so it says a lot about Fox’s writing ability that her obits have acquired something of a cult following. The form demands three things: a nose for interesting facts, the ability to construct a taut narrative arc, and a Dickens-level gift for concisely conveying personality.
Here is Fox's take on her craft and how she became interested in the work of Brooklyn College classics professor Alice Kober, who died in 1950. Her cursory, resume-like obit at the time barely mentions Linear B, an endless series of pictograms unearthed in ancient Greece no one could decipher. Yet Kober's largely unrecognized work over decades made cracking the code possible. Fox's newly released Riddle of the Labyrinth seems like the best kind of book to come out of newsrooms, in which writers decide to take a subject that's not due at 6 p.m. today and follow it wherever it leads.
Thursday, May 16, 2013
EBITS - the latest online obituary venture - fires a warning shot....
Thursday, May 09, 2013
Humorous Death Notices - an emerging subgenre?
http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/nytimes/obituary.aspx?n=antonia-larroux&pid=164596250
Recall:
Harry Stamps
http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/sunherald/obituary.aspx?pid=163538353
Relatedly - but not quite the same thing - the very funny Val Patterson who used his death notice to reveal his lack of PhD and his safe-stealing legacy
http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/saltlaketribune/obituary.aspx?n=val-patterson&pid=158526785
From a couple years ago:
Michael "Flathead" Blanchard
http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/denverpost/obituary.aspx?pid=156944598
Sunday, April 28, 2013
Obit contest deadline is May 4!
A friends's diligent search
By that definition alone, Roy Harris a former Wall Street Journal repoter and CFO magazine editor, figured his friend, artist Martyl Langsdorf, deserved more recognition than she got upon her death at 96. Langsdorf's "Doomsday clock" cover illustration for the June 1947 Bulletin of the Atomic Scientists , the minute hand approaching midnight, became a symbol for the nuclear threat worldwide and, later, climate change.
But even as a seasoned journalist, Harris discovered that selling editors of the largest newspapers on the value of an obit subject is easier said than done. Here is his interesting account of his ultimately successful struggle to gain some recognition for a singular life.
Saturday, April 06, 2013
The Future of Obituaries
Thursday, April 04, 2013
New SPOW website
Wednesday, April 03, 2013
Society of Professional Obituary Writers Conference
The 2013 SPOW Conference will be held in Toronto, Ontario, Canada, June 7-9, 2013.
Go to http://www.eventbrite.com/event/5639271212# for a bit more information and to register.
Return to Obituary Forum for more details to be provided by local host Ron Csillag and his Canadian team.
Monday, April 01, 2013
A couple of thoughts on the NY Times obit controversy
One more note: In discussion of this obit on the blog Jezebel, Andrea Tierson contributed this:
Maybe the Times was trying to humanize its subject. cf. the lede of the paper's Albert Einstein obit (1955):
"In 1904, Albert Einstein, then an obscure young man of 23, could be seen daily in the late afternoon wheeling a baby carriage on the streets of Bern, Switzerland, halting now and then, unmindful to the traffic around him, to scribble down some mathematical symbols in the notebook that shared the carriage with his infant son, also named Albert."
http://graphics8.nytimes.com/packages/pdf/topics/einstein-obit.pdf
Looks like he's being noted as world's best dad before his scientific prowess is mentioned.
Here is what is known about a New York Times obituary on rocket scientist Yvonne Brill, and the Twitter outrage that followed.The story's original lede read as follows:
She made a mean beef stroganoff, followed her husband from job to job and took eight years off work to raise three children. 'The world's best mom,' her son Matthew said.
After a lot of outraged reactions on social media, the lede was subsequently changed to read:
She was a brilliant rocket scientist who followed her husband from job to job and took eight years off from work to raise three children. “The world’s best mom,” her son Matthew said.
"New York Times Changes Sexist Obit About Scientist Yvonne Brill," the Daily Beast proclaimed. "Responsive!" a Twitter follower noted approvingly.
Beyond reversing the order of her scientific and domestic lives and removing the stroganoff reference, the story remained unchanged.
Sullivan in a blog post today summarized her thoughts and the paper's decision to alter its lede. She cited an interesting and useful Columbia Journalism Review article which alerts writers to avoid gender stereotyping when writing about female scientists; spoke with Martin and William McDonald, his editor (both of whom stood behind the original story); and concluded that framing the story as one about gender "had the effect of undervaluing what really landed Mrs. Brill on the Times obituaries page: her groundbreaking scientific work."
As an early and lonely defender of this obit, I would like to make just a few points:
The CJR article Sullivan cited as instructive in avoiding gender stereotypes quotes one of its primary sources saying it is legitimate in her view to bring gender discrimination issues into a profile of a woman in science:
For instance, if you’re writing a story about sexism in science or about the gender gap in leadership roles in science or you’re writing about sex-related issues specifically.
What’s not ok is to turn a story about a scientist’s professional life into one about her personal life or her gender roles..
Brill was denied the option of majoring in her chosen field of engineering at the University of Manitoba, ostensibly due to a lack of accommodations. While I understand that obits about any minority or underrepresented group present ready-made cliches for the taking -- and that one of these can be that the subject "overcame barriers" -- not being able to major in your chosen field to me seems like an obstacle worth reporting.
No fair reading of Martin's obit could lead one to conclude that Brill's many contributions, from developing more efficient rocket thrusters to contributing to rocket and satellite designs -- work that landed her in the Inventors Hall of Fame -- were remarkable because, as the CJR piece correctly warns us against doing, "She accomplished all of this while being a woman!"
The stroganoff lede that aroused so much controversy sets up a different, and more complicated, kind of contrast -- between a woman who preferred to be addressed as "Mrs.," and who embraced some of those societal norms about gender while, yes, overcoming them.
Also on Monday, writer Paul Carr on pandodaily took on what he called "readers of the Daily Internet Outrage Memo." It's an interesting take, and the points he makes about writing are particularly relevant.
At the same time, I would not dismiss objections to the original lede as groundless. I can see how it looks: after a century of consciousness raising about gender equality and seemingly great strides forward, an eminent newspaper bends over backwards to link a brilliant female scientist to her cooking.
I just think a lot of the people protesting this are getting the story wrong.
Saturday, March 16, 2013
Society of Professional Obituary Writers Conference
Go to http://www.eventbrite.com/event/5639271212# for a bit more information and to register.
Return to Obituary Forum for more details to be provided by local host Ron Csillag and his Canadian team.
Friday, March 15, 2013
Thanks to Marilyn Johnson, our supporter and author of The Dead Beat, for suggesting that Eli interview me. Through the Harry Stamps obit that has gone viral, interest in obits is, as they say, trending. His obit and the reaction to it have prompted many follow-up articles and columns on the back story.
I recently gave a talk on family-written death notice and now consider myself ambidextobitrous: I work both sides of the obits street. Hoping to see you all in Toronto.
Tuesday, March 05, 2013
SPOW member in the running for literary prize
Martin's book, Working the Dead Beat: 50 Lives that Changed Canada (House of Anansi Press, September 2012), offers a historical view of Canada through the lives of individuals she had written about. In book length, she accomplishes what cannot be done in a newspaper obituary -- present a fuller context of what she calls "transformative lives." Subjects include Prime Minister Pierre Trudeau, economist John Kenneth Galbraith, and urban theorist Jane Jacobs.
Martin offers "a select history of Canada told through extended obituaries of both the known and the unknown, researched energetically and written graciously," writes Canadian journalist Paula Todd. "Her tone is thoughtful, her scolding scant, and almost all of the transformative Canadians are presented in the context of their own struggles."
Author Ted Barris, a journalism professor at Centennial College in Toronto and a veteran CBC radio contributor, calls Martin "the obit queen of Canada." Working the Dead Beat includes Sandra's reflections on what she has learned from writing obituaries. You can find her discussing the book here and, briefly, here.
Congratulations to Sandra on this important book!
Sunday, March 03, 2013
Grimmies: Awards for Outstanding Obituary Writing
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| Grimmies: SPOW Awards |
These will be SPOW’s first awards following the death beaters’ reorganization hiatus.
SPOW yet lives!
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| Csillag |
SPOW also plans to go ahead with its annual awards - the SPOW Awards, a.k.a. Grimmies - honoring outstanding obit work published in 2011 and 2012. Another post (to be posted shortly) will provide details on that. In the meantime, dig up your obits published in those years for consideration. Outgoing SPOW director Alana Baranick (that would be me) is serving as contest coordinator.
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| Powell |
Kay Powell, retired Atlanta Journal Constitution obits editor and winner of several SPOW Awards, including the Lifetime Achievement Award, will handle Lifetime Achievement nominations. More on that soon too.
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| Meacham |
The SPOW website - www.obitwriters.org - will soon disappear from the Internet. The Obituary Forum blog and the general SPOW email - obitwriters.org@gmail.com - will serve as the best means for reaching SPOW.
Keep checking back for more SPOW news.
Friday, March 01, 2013
New Book Features An Obit Writer As The Protagonist
So begins "The Obituary Writer," a new book by Ann Hood. The story focuses on the lives of two women: one is an unhappy housewife living in the early 1960s, the other is an obituary writer living in 1919 and searching for her missing lover.
Described as part-literary mystery and part-love story, "The Obituary Writer" will be released on March 4.
Saturday, January 12, 2013
An Awesome Introduction To The Death Beat
On Jan. 19, SPJ South Florida will fake three deaths. Participants will take a crash course in obit writing with Miami Herald obituary writer Elinor Brecher, then spend the afternoon attending a mock memorial at an area funeral home, interviewing arrivals about the deceased and eating dessert. Afterwards, the reporters will head to the newsroom of the South Florida Gay News and write their stories.
All obits will be judged by Brecher and the "deceased." The writer of the best obit will win an awesome urn filled with the ashes of pages burned from local newspapers.
"Why are we doing this? Because it can be argued that few stories are more important than those summing up a life just concluded. Yet few journalists are taught how to write obituaries. So while we’re obviously having some fun with the process, we’re quite serious about the topic. You will learn something by the end of the day," Michael Koretzky stated.
Tuesday, December 25, 2012
Appreciation For An Obit Writer
"You haven’t seen her name in the bright lights of our newspaper because her writing doesn’t require a byline. Most of our readers wouldn’t know her if they saw her. But she has been there writing. Five days a week for 22 years. Always steady. Always professional. Always compassionate."Click here to read the rest of the article.
Sunday, December 16, 2012
Obits on massacred children
Sunday, October 21, 2012
Wednesday, December 07, 2011
Society of Professional Obituary Writers Reorganization, Conference and Awards
SPOW Awards honoring obituary work published in 2011 will be presented along with awards for obits published in 2012 during the 2013 SPOW Conference at a location to be determined.
SPOW seeks to elect a new director, revamp its website and make the organization more relevant in the changing world of journalism.
Interested SPOW members, associate members and friends are invited to participate in the reorganization, recommend director candidates and volunteer for various duties by contacting current director Alana Baranick at alana.baranick@obitwriters.org.
Tuesday, November 29, 2011
Woman's paid obit neglects to mention pertinent detail: She killed five people.
Sunday, November 13, 2011
'This American Life' Seeks Obit Suggestions
"We're looking for stories, anecdotes, suggestions about people who have died this year that are particularly personal, emotional, unbelievable, extraordinary. These stories can be told by friends or relatives, business associates or casual acquaintances. They can even be told by the deceased people themselves, if archival tape, interviews or memoirs exist. They don't have to be long or epic -– the story isn’t supposed to tell their whole life –- but it'd be great if they're emotional or surprising and evocative of the featured person in some way. In particular, we'd love stories or suggestions about soldiers who have passed away, firefighters or police officers. Beloved teachers and the big turning points in their lives, or just one amazing teachable moment they nailed. Politicians? Town eccentrics? Someone who died who lived a great love story. A child who died. Also, anyone who left a particularly charming or extensive or simply mindblowing instructions for their memorial service."
Send pitches/links to Julie Snyder, senior producer of "This American Life."
Monday, September 19, 2011
Quote of the Day
Saturday, September 10, 2011
The Geography of Loss
For what or for whom do you grieve?
Personally, I grieve for my best friend, my grandmother, my cats (Princess, Sox, Eastman and Mystery), my high school sweetheart and some of the many people I've covered on the death beat. What about you?
Friday, September 02, 2011
PJ O'Rourke proposes vindictive pre-obits
Sadly his work has declined to things like this predictable litany in which he wishes his political enemies dead. It's the usual suspects and there's nothing creative about it and it would be just as bad if his enemies happened to be conservatives. PJ became so partisan that he ate his brain, as well as his bilious good humor.
Sunday, August 28, 2011
NYTimes Crossword Puzzle mentions in death notices
Today it is Mildred Swartsberg, who died at 99 and "had a passion for all the arts, sports and The New York Times crossword puzzle. She was great at anything she tried."
I'd hardly choose to be remembered for my devotion to the Sunday crossword - my spaghetti aglio et olio would be a better keepsake. Still today's death notice crossword mention set me to wondering how often the crossword pops up in death notices.
Nexis reveals that it is an astonishing 238 times since 1997, more than once a month. The pioneer was the redoubtable Bertha Newman, an accountant who was remembered as "a voracious reader, a devotee of The New York Times cross word puzzle, a woman of inspired conversation, a deeply caring friend, and a person who never lost her passionate love for the cultural life of this city."
Nor have I!!
Friday, August 26, 2011
The end of the story
Wednesday, June 22, 2011
Missing survivors
When questioned about the omission, Pat Jones, the Arkansas newspaper's general manager, told the blog Queerty: "It’s not a gay thing. We don’t list unmarried couples, in-laws, or pets in the free obituaries."
Friday, June 10, 2011
Monday, May 30, 2011
Not Your Grandma's Obit
Please note that the comment about dark meat in her chicken salad is as much a myth as all Southerners drink sweet tea.
Monday, May 23, 2011
NYTimes runs 112-year-old obit correction
Thursday, May 19, 2011
Jim Sheeler, Roy Peter Clark and Mallory Tenore chat about stories of life and death
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| Jim Sheeler |
You can still check out what was covered by visiting the Poynter chat on How to Report & Write Stories of Life, Death.
Live chat: How to report & write stories about life & death
Sunday, May 15, 2011
Lieutenant-Colonel Jeffery Williams (1920-2011)
A swell obituary in The Telegraph of a Canadian military historian who was the last member of the paper's obituarists to have served in the Second World War.
Friday, May 13, 2011
The 2011 Grimmies, a.k.a. Society of Professional Obituary Writers Awards, Have Been Presented
| Larken Bradley |
The list of official SPOW Award recipients are as follows:
Best Body of Work in Obituary Writing (Long Form): Philip Fine, Globe and Mail.
Best Body of Work in Obituary Writing (Short Form): Maureen O'Donnell, Chicago Sun Times.
Best Obit about an Internationally Known Figure: Sandra Martin, Globe and Mail, for her Jackie Burroughs obit.
Best Obituary Tribute: Tom Hawthorn, Globe and Mail, for his Gene Kiniski obit.
Best Obituary (Short Form) about a Well-Known Regional Figure: Maureen O'Donnell, Chicago Sun Times, for her Joseph Sterling obit.
Best Obituary (Long Form) about a Well-Known Regional Figure: Amy Rabideau Silvers, Milwaukee Journal Sentinel, for her Lorrie Otto obituary.
Best Obituary (Short Form) about an Average Joe: Amy Rabideau Silvers, Milwaukee Journal Sentinel, for her Evelyn Fefer obituary.
Best Obituary (Long Form) about an Average Joe: Andrew Meacham, St. Petersburg Times, for his Neal Alan Smith obit.
Winners of the People's Picks, an online poll that is open to the public but has no bearing on the outcome of the official Grimmies judging, are:
Body of Work (Long Form): Ron Csillag, Globe and Mail;
Body of Work (Short Form): Mark Zaborney, Toledo Blade.
Internationally Known Figure: Dave Hoekstra, Chicago Sun Times, for his Solomon Burke obit.
Best Obituary Tribute: Roger Ebert, Chicago Sun Times, for his Tony Curtis obituary.
Best Obituary (Long Form) about an Average Joe: Ron Csillag, Globe and Mail, for his Fred Huffman obit.
Best Obituary (Short Form) about an Average Joe: Maureen O'Donnell, Chicago Sun Times, for her obituary for The DeMuros.
Best Obituary (Long Form) about a Well-Known Regional Figure: Maureen O'Donnell, Chicago Sun Times, for her Jim Cole obit.
Best Obituary (Short Form) about a Well-Known Regiona Figure: Maureen O'Donnell, Chcago Sun Times, for her Joe Vito obituary.
Thursday, May 12, 2011
Legacy.com announces partnership with Society of Professional Obituary Writers to showcase obits for everyday people
LEADING MEMORIAL SITE PARTNERS WITH OBITUARY WRITERS TO SPOTLIGHT OBITS FOR “ORDINARY” PEOPLE
With help from the Society of Professional Obituary Writers, Legacy.com shares newspaper obituaries for teachers, homemakers and others
EVANSTON, Ill. – There’s no shortage of places to read the life stories of celebrities like Elizabeth Taylor and Michael Jackson. But too often the obituaries of less well-known people go unnoticed. A new feature launched by online memorial leader Legacy.com seeks to change that by highlighting obituaries for ordinary people who led extraordinary lives – or who simply had exceptionally interesting obituaries.
Through a newly-formed partnership with the Society of Professional Obituary Writers, Legacy.com – which hosts the obituary sections of 900-plus newspapers in the United States and around the world – is showcasing stories not only of movie stars and pop singers, but also of teachers, restaurant servers, homemakers and more.
“We’re delighted to share with our millions of users some of the amazing life stories that are published in newspapers every day,” said Legacy.com President and CEO Stopher Bartol. “By combining our resources with those of the nation’s leading obituary writers, we not only drive traffic to newspaper obituaries, but also help satisfy the appetite of readers for interesting stories and the desire by families for their loved ones’ legacies to be remembered.”
Examples include:
*A devoted married couple who died four days apart, 65 years after they first met.
*A schoolteacher who, at 98, recalled the names of students she had taught half a century earlier. (They remembered her, too.)
*A popular parking meter prosecutor. (Yes, you read that right.)
The highlighted obituaries, regularly added to a Legacy.com blog called The Obit Report that links to the newspaper where the obituary was originally published, are often inspirational – and occasionally funny.
For example, the family of Rose Davis provided a lighthearted accounting of her birth and life, as well as their eventual reunion with her in heaven: We miss you dearly and know that we'll meet again. But, not too soon.
The Obit Report initiative was partly the result of a report by the Medill School of Journalism that found “people interested in obituaries – compelling stories about noteworthy lives – are a sizeable, highly engaged potential audience.”
“The Medill team zeroed in on the fact that people enjoy reading stories about people, whether they’re famous or not,” Bartol said, noting that obituaries are among the most visited sections of newspapers. “Given that Legacy.com publishes thousands of newspaper obituaries each day and SPOW is comprised of award-winning journalists who are passionate about obituaries, the partnership positions us well to identify great content and share it with a broader audience.”
Said Alana Baranick, SPOW director: “The Society of Professional Obituary Writers is delighted that Legacy.com has made The Obit Report a forum on which to spotlight obits about ordinary people who lived extraordinary lives. We're sharing life stories that are beautifully or cleverly written by professional journalists as well as family-prepared obits that capture our attention for a variety of reasons.”
The Obit Report is currently available at www.legacy.com and via Legacy.com’s Facebook page.
ABOUT LEGACY.COM
Founded in 1998, Legacy.com is the world’s most timely and comprehensive resource for online obituaries and the undisputed leader in Web-based memorialization. With 18 million unique visitors each month, the Legacy.com domain is among the 100 most visited on the Internet.
Legacy.com’s network includes thousands of newspapers and funeral homes in the United States, Canada, the United Kingdom, Ireland and Australia. By making interactive memorial content accessible directly via the websites of newspapers and funeral homes, Legacy.com helps people expand the ways in which they can express condolences and share remembrances of loved ones. A privately held company, Legacy.com is headquartered in Evanston, Ill.
ABOUT SPOW
The Society of Professional Obituary Writers is a group of journalists who write, produce and present obituaries for newspapers and other news entities. SPOW spotlights the art of obituary writing while helping obituary writers improve their craft.
Thursday, May 05, 2011
NYTimes obit writer talks about Bin Laden obit
Monday, April 18, 2011
People's Picks and the Grimmies (SPOW Awards) will be announced May 13
For conference details, visit our conference page.
People's Picks for Internationally Famous Individual
Read about these famous people by clicking their names:
Miep Gies
Jean Charpentier
Howard O. Jones
Solomon Burke
Jackie Burroughs
People's Picks for Short-form Regional Figure
Click the names, read the obits, then decide.
Carolyn Rodgers
Joe Vito
Joseph Sterling
Leigh Van Valen
Robert "Squirrel" Lester
Long-form Obits for Average Joes await the People's Picks
The Long-form Average Joe finalists are:
Fred Huffman
Neal Alan Smith
Patricia Travers
Margaret St. James
Jim and Bettie Wise
Got a favorite?
People's Picks for Long-form Regional Figure
Arturo Petterino
Lorrie Otto
Marylena Graves
Jim Cole
Laura Legge
People's Picks for Short-form Average Joe obit
The finalists for SPOW Awards for Short-form obits about Average Joes are:
Patricia and Lou DeMuro
Denise Hodges
Evelyn Fefer
Kendall Tapley
Mark Butler
Michael Schwass
You'll notice we've got six finalists in this category. That's because we had three obits tied for the final two slots in the top five. This seemed like the best way to handle it.
People's Picks for obit tributes
If you like the obit for Tony Curtis, prefer the one for Solomon Burke or think one for a person you've never heard of is the most awesome, that's dandy.
But please don't choose the movie star because he's your all-time favorite actor or the soul singer because you like his music.
Please choose the obit that moves you, informs you and/or entertains you.
Click the name to read the obit.
Tony Curtis
Solomon Burke
Gene Kiniski
Jim Wakefield
Ronald Chase Sr.
People's Picks: Short-form Body of Work
Obit writer F
Obit writer G
Obit writer H
Obit writer I
Obit writer J
The People's Picks Poll: The Unofficial Popularity Contest for Obit Writing
Click here to read Obit writer A's 5 obits.
Obit writer B's work is here.
Here's Obit writer C's entry.
And Obit writer D.
And finally Obit writer E.
These are the five finalists for the Long-form Body of Work category of the 2011 Society of Professional Obituary Writer's Awards for obit writing.
And this is the first installment of the 2011 SPOW People's Picks Poll.
This just-for-fun exercise allows the public to let us know which obits and obit writers they like best. It has no bearing on the official winners. A panel of obituary professionals has already selected the winners in all eight categories as well as the recipient of a Lifetime Achievement Award.
(I know, I know. Obit writers getting awards for "body" of work and "lifetime" achievement does seem a bit ironic.)
All entries are presented without bylines, headlines or photos. The obits have to stand on their own.
And they do!
To the contestants: Great work!
Friday, April 15, 2011
Lifetime summed up in four words or less
He hopes you'll find the piece entertaining.
Thursday, April 07, 2011
Public Eavesdropping in the San Francisco Chronicle
Avoiding the 'knight in shining armor' and other obituary cliches
* breathe life into obituary writing
* research a subject you can’t interview
* avoid the curse of the cliche
* write the last word on someone’s life
Then I had the audience pen the opening lines of their own obits. Here is one attendee's take on the workshop.
Monday, April 04, 2011
Awkward
Wednesday, March 30, 2011
Writing Obits: A mini tutorial

For the briefest tutorial ever on obit writing, check out this obitpage.com podcast link.
Carolyn Gilbert, founder of Obitpage.com, interviews Kay Powell in this podcast. It takes several minutes to view.
While you're on the page, check out the other obit podcasts posted regularly by Gilbert and Dr. Cory Franklin.
Those podcasts are online obits for the dead. I am Kay Powell, and I am not dead.
Thursday, March 24, 2011
Another byline for the NYTimes counterpart of Dr. Death
Both wrote advance obits for Elizabeth Taylor, whose famous hospital stays probably outnumbered her movie roles.
And the indomitable Ms. Taylor outlived both obit writers.
Mara Gray posted a brief article about Gussow for AOL News titled "Elizabeth Taylor's Obit Writer Died 6 Years Ago".






